Category Archives: God’s plan and purpose

Collaboration Makes the Difference

In the last post, I told about my concern for the squatters who lived in dilapidated shacks and lacked the ability to keep warm during the cold nights. I knew I needed others to join me in a collaborated effort to help these people. I contacted my mother and explained the situation to her. She immediately sent me two hundred dollars to buy blankets. A few other people responded, and I went shopping for blankets at the local market, where they were cheaper than in the US. I pushed back the thought that I lacked the resources to help every squatter family in San Cristobal, or every family in my neighborhood, for that matter. The story of the starfish came to my mind: A boy walked along the beach throwing starfish into the ocean. Someone told the boy that he couldn’t make a difference in the lives of the hundreds of starfish lying on the beach. The boy responded that it did for this one and he threw one into the surf (The Starfish Story by Loren Eisley). That sure put a strong emphasis on the idea to get out there and do what could be done.

I asked a Spanish-speaking missionary friend if she would join me on this missions project. We prayed over the blankets before we set out. “Lord, when each one wraps himself in this blanket, may he feel Your love. May each of these blankets provide warmth for each man, woman, or child.” We soon found ourselves going up and down the streets in my neighborhood, praying for the Lord to reveal where we needed to stop for these deliveries.

The first corrugated-metal shed housed two families, but only one family was present at this time. The mother’s name, Norma was my mother’s name. That made me chuckle since Mom invested the most in this venture. Norma had six children, and her husband needed employment. The kids shyly lined up for introductions, and the smiles broke out when we passed out the blankets. My friend shared about Jesus Christ, the Son of God, Who gave His life for us that we may have eternal life. Norma listened intently and encouraged the conversation with questions. As we departed, we assured her we would be back for more visits.

A grandmother, a girl and her brother lived In the next place. The grandmother acted standoffish at first, but when my friend started talking about the Lord Jesus, she warmed right up to us.

Only a block away stood another shack where a young brother and sister lived with their grandfather. The grandfather, confined to a wheel chair, kept shaking our hands in gratitude. I wondered how he functioned in his chair with hill-side terrain, bumps, and holes. On later days, when I walked past them, the grandfather would smile and wave his hand in greeting, just as best friends do.

Days later, resting in the apartment, I heard a knock on the door. Since we never received unannounced visitors, I peeked through the hole in the door and saw Norma’s oldest boy, Angel, holding a red rose and a plastic bag. He gave me the customary greeting—a slight hug and kiss on the cheek—as he said, “Señora, my mother wanted to give you this rose and these vegetables.” Humbled beyond words, I noticed his mother waiting by the gate with her daughter, Normita. I lacked the ability to speak the language, but I could communicate in other ways, so I motioned for her to come in. God truly blessed me that day as I looked at the squash, oranges, lemons, and a package of store-bought cupcakes. These were gifts, to show how much they appreciated the gift of blankets. I saw them as sacrifices to say thank you.

Over the years, I have seen what collaboration can do in missions projects. It could be as large as building a duplex in an orphanage, paying for the operation of a child or as small as donating a box of diapers. It’s amazing to see the number of people, who step forward and say they want to help. Being involved in helping others is a big part of God’s plan and purpose for us. How would you feel, to look out your door and see Angel bearing gifts just for you?

Squatters Needs

100_2390I lived in a city, San Cristobal, above a valley where Guatemala City sat. The two cities were divided by a huge canyon called a barranco in Spanish. The beauty of this place, full of trees and flowers, stirred my heart. I wanted to walk the area and enjoy the breezy air. However, I had been warned about walking alone and knew there were areas considered taboo. I lived in a safer area; whatever that meant. How did anybody know it was safer? The idea of robbery, rape, or kidnapping were not far from my thoughts as I clutched the pepper spray tube in my hand. Through prayer, a calmness took over, and off I went to explore this beautiful land, staying within a short distance of the apartment.

My first time out gave me a good view of the clash of two different cultures. Large fancy homes sat next to shacks that could blow over in a windstorm. (The attached photo is an example.) As I walked past these shacks, I looked for the squatters who lived in them. I looked especially for the children. Dirty from head to toe and carrying lice in their shaggy hair, they smiled at me from ear to ear. Seeing me, a white-skinned, blonde-haired woman, caused fear and curiosity. I had invaded their territory. Other missionaries told me that the indigenous were told stories about “gringos” who stole Guatemalan children to sell for adoption. I needed to be cautious and not overstep my bounds. As these children saw me on a regular basis during my walks, they became more confident that I wasn’t going to cause them harm. We greeted each other with a word or a wave; however, the conversation ended there, because I did not know enough Spanish to initiate anything more. I learned their names when someone who spoke Spanish walked with me.

As the season changed, the wind blew harder through this area called a wind tunnel. I figured that if I, a Montana girl, felt cold, these children had to be freezing with the lack of socks, sometimes shoes, and warm coats. I had opportunity to peek in some of the shacks and saw primitive living conditions. Campfires were used for cooking and old and cracked plastic containers held their water. The stark reality was that most of them slept on the ground huddled together with only few holey blankets to cover them.

Lord what can I do? I don’t have any money, and I want to do something to help these people. My mind started processing possibilities, and I knew I could do something, if I found people to partner with me. I learned that it is not about what I can do but, but what God can do through me. In the next post, I will share the action taken to help the people who were my neighbors.

There are many stories, from all over the world, of people collaborating together to help others during their hardships. I know it makes Jesus smile. I’m sure many of you have a testimony of ministering in God’s love. In the “comment” area on the post, describe this and may it be an encouragement and reminder to all of us, to keep our eyes open for more of these opportunities.

Misconceptions About MKs

People may think that kids of missionaries don’t contribute to God’s call with their families, but that the calling is only for the parents. That is not what I saw at CAG (Christian Academy of Guatemala). Our first missions project, as the sixth-grade class, turned out to be a great learning experience for all of us. After we shared our perspectives of our time with the family in La Rosa, I asked the kids to write in their journals. I prayed that the project would have a life-changing effect upon them, and what I read in the journals indicated that my prayers were answered. I’ve copied below several of their written comments.

“It made me think about how fortunate I am to have everything I need. It was a wonderful experience. I will never forget it.”

“I felt so sorry for them because they were so poor, but I also felt ashamed because I realized that I really was spoiled, and I still want more when they have nothing.”

“We had the chance to help others and witness about Christ to them.”

“My greatest experience was seeing how grateful and happy the people were when we gave them the food.”

“I saw the ladies’ faces light up because of all the food they needed.”

“I am willing to help them as much as I can. I would give all that I have to make them happy.”

“I want to get them on fire for the Lord.”

“I almost started to cry when I looked into the girls’ faces and saw their joy. I did not think anybody could have joy in that place.”

“I feel God is telling me to help them.”

“It made me feel so rich and thankful.”

Deeply touched by this experience, it made all of us aware that we wanted to share the love of the Lord to the hurting and the needy. This wasn’t a happily ever after time that ended the struggles of the MKs (missionary children). It did, however, give them a missionary perspective—the main reason their families were in Guatemala. They had participated in the missionary experience and wanted more. We continued to help the La Rosa family as a class, and with other individuals who became involved with our project. Someone provided a water drain system to catch rain water into a fifty-gallon barrel for their private use. Later, another donation provided a faucet that tapped into the town water system. A small block room with a concrete floor was built for added protection and comfort for the six occupants. Others donated money for the land, that secured them their home and peace in their hearts, knowing they wouldn’t be homeless again.

This pre-teen class shined like the sun in their ministry with our foster family and in other ministries through out the school year. Eric Johnson from Bethel Assembly in Redding, California once said, “Ministry is not what you do but who you are.” We were all in this process of finding out who we were. These third-culture kids tapped into their hearts and realized they were doing the same things Jesus did when He walked this earth: helping others. They could make a positive difference in the lives of others. I’ve learned that any of us can make a difference where ever we are if we keep our eyes open to the people and needs around us.

MKs Cut Out for Missions Project

At CAG (Christian Academy of Guatemala), every class had the responsibility for a missions project. The family in La Rosa was fresh in my mind when the subject came up in my class. After I explained the situation, the students unanimously decided that they wanted to “adopt” this family. With contagious excitement, the ideas flew around the room. “We need a fundraiser,” shouted one of the girls. “Hey, let’s have a rummage sale here at the school.” “I can make snow cones and sell them at the rummage sale.” A couple of the boys proposed that they could make some beds, shelves, and tables during shop class. Another boy said they could learn to mix cement and put blocks together for the wall of a house. By this time, I felt chocked up inside. These MKs (missionary kids) showed their giving hearts.

Several of the students got into a conversation about how we could have fundraisers and use the money to buy land for the foster family. The ideas mounted without any encouragement from me. At this point, I had all the kids take out their journals and write down their ideas. When I read the journals later, I cried. One fellow wrote that he would give them everything he had. This provided proof of the Lord’s love flowing through the MKs’ hearts toward others.

With permission of the administration, we set the plans in motion. Of course, some of the students’ ideas were not realistic, but they discovered that themselves. I contacted the parents and turned the kids loose. The students’ spirits were in high gear and ready to go. We held a rummage sale at the school, cookies and snow cones were sold during recess time, and donations were put in the donation jar designated for this family. The smell of fresh paint hung heavy in the shop, with the sounds of the hammers and saws.

Finally, the big day arrived. Jose, the man who works with this family, agreed to translate for us and met us in front of the foster family home. The aunts recognized me and welcomed me with hugs and kisses. Suddenly, Christmas Day appeared for all inside that compound. The MKs brought in clothes, blankets, fruit, vegetables, cleaning products, canned goods, beans, rice, toys and of course, candy. The shop-made dressers came in, and a student showed the little girls how to put clothes in them. When we gathered at the gate to leave, I saw the oldest girl take off her new jacket, fold it, and put it in a drawer. She had just enjoyed an experience for the first time: having a place to put her clothes!

Before we left, we prayed with the family and then received words of thanks from the aunts and hugs from the children. Afterward, Jose shared some important information with me. He knew that we would continue to help this family, and warned us that everything needed to be low-keyed. If people in the area heard that we gave items and money to the ladies and children, they could be robbed and lose everything. We needed to hear this great advice.

In the next post, I will share the comments from the students’ journals about this life-changing missions project. Perhaps you too have had similar experiences during a short-term mission trip. I’d enjoy hearing about it.